{"id":6537,"date":"2020-10-19T09:58:40","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T13:58:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ohiovma.org\/news\/?p=6537"},"modified":"2020-10-19T09:58:42","modified_gmt":"2020-10-19T13:58:42","slug":"radical-candor-reflecting-on-racism-in-social-settings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ohiovma.org\/news\/?p=6537","title":{"rendered":"Radical Candor: Reflecting on Racism in Social Settings"},"content":{"rendered":"<body>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/anchor.fm\/fully-vetted\/embed\/episodes\/21--Radical-Candor-Reflecting-on-Racism-in-Social-Settings-el414c\" height=\"102px\" width=\"100%\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p>Never talk politics with family and friends\u2014or so they say. But as we\u2019ve learned, we must have difficult conversations if we hope to change anything. Sometimes, you\u2019ll be able to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fullyvettedpodcast.com\/20-diversity-discussions-tough-talks-with-family-friends\/\">prepare for a serious discussion<\/a>\u00a0in advance so it goes smoothly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, the topic could arise organically at family dinners, social events, and other informal gatherings\u2014at any time and with no warning. Without talking points and rules of engagement, how do have a productive discussion? What cues do you need to be aware of when responding to a racist family member? And what if it gets heated\u2014to the point where you\u2019re worried your relationship will never be the same?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this frank conversation, Krysten talks with Dr. Mia Cary about the realities and consequences of impromptu discussions about race and discrimination. Dr. Cary offers advice on why you should speak up, even if you know another person\u2019s point of view won\u2019t change; demonstrates how to tactfully correct someone who is stereotyping; and what to do when disagreements threaten your closest relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a must-listen episode for anyone who wants to learn how to better handle difficult conversations. Though the conversation centers around race, Dr. Cary\u2019s techniques can be applied to other personal and professional situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mentioned in this Episode<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/dialogueonracelouisiana.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Maxine Crump<\/a><\/li><li><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.insights.com\/us\/solutions\/\" target=\"_blank\">Insights training<\/a><\/li><li><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.robindiangelo.com\/publications\/\" target=\"_blank\">Robin DiAngelo \u2013\u00a0White Fragility<\/a><\/li><li><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.niutoday.info\/2019\/04\/01\/diversity-dialogue-series-examines-white-fatigue-with-dr-joseph-flynn\/\" target=\"_blank\">Joseph Flynn \u2013 White Fatigue<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Episode Guests<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.fullyvettedpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/CaryMia-e1599143707705.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-913\" loading=\"lazy\"><figcaption><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fullyvettedpodcast.com\/guests\/#Cary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Dr. Mia Cary<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As the old adage goes, you should never talk about politics at the dinner table\u2014or should you? 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